1. Before you start a relationship with a lady,
you
must think carefully
about what you are about to do. A
relationship is not
something you
should rush into or handle lightly.
2.Are you ready for a relationship with her?
Are you
emotionally,
mentally and spiritually mature to meet her
needs?
3. Being sexually attracted to her means
absolutely
nothing. It isn’t a
sign of likeness, love or any other thing your
mind
may come up
with. It may just be your hormones messing
with
your mind. A woman is more than her body
and her sexuality.
She
has a life which
you should be able to blend with. Can you do
that?
4. This lady has a history. Can you handle it?
She has
a past. Can
you handle it? Can you handle her mistakes,
failures
and
weaknesses? Can you handle her dreams
without
being intimidated and becoming jealous?
5. She already had a life before she met you.
Can you
fit into and
help improve her life?
6. Love is commitment. Are you ready to
commit your
life to helping
her grow and become all that she can be, by
God’s
grace?
7. Is she valuable enough for you to devote a
large
portion of your
life towards the accomplishment of HER
dream? Are
you ready to
pour your resources into making her all the
Lord
plans for her to be? If you are not ready,
don’t just bother.
8. Before you open your mouth to say ‘I love
you’,
ask yourself if this
is not just a moment of ‘emotional madness’.
A lady
needs much
more than ‘I love you’. She needs your
commitment.
If you are not ready to make that
commitment that will lead to
marriage, please
leave her alone in peace and stop wasting
her Time.
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